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New Website

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I've been working on my new website for some time now as some of you know. I feel as if I've done nothing but live, eat and breathe this website for months now. And after all that work, what have I produced? Well it looks like I've produced something very similar to my previous site, and perhaps the one before. Maybe I have no imagination, or maybe I know what I like. Well I certainly know what I like. Getting it to translate onto something on my screen has not always been easy or manageable. With some of the layout, colour and visuals I feel quite frustrated as I'm no expert, which means I end up compromising and going with what I can make happen on the screen. I've had some very valued input from someone who knows an awful lot more than me about the technical side of things, and very grateful for that input I am too, especially as this person has a busy life too. Having said that, I want to stand on my own two feet with my website.  I want to do a...

Limited availability and month long break.

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It's now around 9 weeks until I head off to Tanzania. With the added training I need to put in, my fund raising events and some other projects I've got on the go, my session availability will be somewhat limited. I was planning to take a break in August but have had a total rethink and have now made definite plans to holiday straight from my trip to Tanzania. Therefore, I will be having a break from sessioning for a full month. The dates are from around the 3rd week in September until the same time in October. With this limited availability I'm giving my regular slaves/subs and clients plenty of warning to book their appointment early or at least be prepared to be fairly flexible with your session requests.   Now, just because you've all waited nearly a month for a new blog, and all you get is this......let me remind you of what I look like (well the bits that I show here!) Here's a sneak preview of a shoot I've done recently with my very talented and much ...

Epic Fail

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I mentioned on twitter the other day about my recent bondage failure. It made me laugh so much. I had said gent on my bondage rack, strapped in with the four  straps across his body, when he suddenly removed his left hand and scratched his nose. Once I was done laughing I added in wrist cuffs and shackled them to the bench too, and then ramped up the electrics on his cock! I really don't think this guy could have managed to release his hand to scratch his nose. Just proving to myself at least that I can still manage a decent enough bondage scenario....:)

Kili update

You will all let me know when you get bored of this won't you....:D Anyway, this is just a quick update to say my fund raising so far has reached approx £2500. I've still got a bit to go to get to my target so have a few more fund raising ideas and events planned. If you're not aware, I'm doing the trek to raise funds for Marie Curie Cancer Care. I popped into their fund raising office this week for some promotional material for my events and was given a guided tour around the hospice. I'm amazed at the work they do and it was humbling to see where the funds go, and what they can provide with all the donations everyone has made. To those of you who've donated either by sponsorship or my auction I'd like to thank you so much...to those not yet donated.....then you're due a good thrashing! I'm probably going to be taking a break in August before heading off for my trek in September. So for the month of July I'm offering to add a half hour to ea...

My love of Bondage

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Anyone who views my blog can tell I have a bit of a passion for bondage. Where I am now with bondage is far removed from when I started unsurprisingly. This means I now enjoy rope, leather, furniture, steel and any other kind of bondage you can imagine.  However, it's not always been the case, and bondage was never my fist love. When I first started out exploring the play element of D/s, long before becoming a Pro-Domme, I saw bondage as purely a means to an end. Certainly it still can be a quick way to restrain someone for another purpose, but in the early days that's the only real value I saw in bondage. To immobilise or restrict my play partner so that I could do bad things to him. Even then, sometimes I was a bit intimidated by bondage, especially rope bondage. It took time and effort which meant that there seemed like a build up, and then the realisation of having someone now very much bound, maybe in a hogtie and faced with that moment of 'what shall I do with him now...

Another Rogues Gallery

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Suspension of sorts

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At the weekend I did a 3 hour indoor climbing tutorial. I've done indoor climbing before, but not this year, and as my climbing had concentrated on just the climbing and not really the belaying, I decided a refresher course was needed. During the time on the walls we tried various different grades of climbs and gradients. I was quite pleased with what I could manage. What I wasn't looking forward to was the 'throwing yourself off the wall' for your buddy to get practice at safe belaying for when this happens for real. I've always had a problem with the letting go and trusting the person below to take get me back down safely. I've been known to totally freeze if I think they're not paying attention or don't have the tension just right on the ropes. Anyway the time came for me to do it, just as my climbing buddy had managed 2 not so good attempts to belay safely for another climber!...This did not fill me with confidence. However, I'm never going t...